Monday, 7 July 2014: One Year and Fourteen Weeks Old.
Ayla came home from day care today with a crown!
I always knew she was a princess but this beautiful hand made crown of hers leaves no doubt !
It’s made out of white cardboard and decorated with purple glitter and Ayla wears it with all the glory it deserves.
As soon as I arrived at the center Ayla ran over to get her crown and brought it to show me, smiling from ear to eat when I popped it on her head and “oooh”‘ed at how wonderful she looked wearing it.
Ayla didn’t like it when we got to the car and I removed her crown, mainly because I wanted to preserve it for Daddy to see.
But when we got home and Ayla adorned herself with her crown once more, she toddled about the yard with all the grace and glamour expected of a princess, and not once did she try to remove it.
Saturday, 14 June 2014; One Year and Seventy Four Days Old
Ayla and I had a very social Saturday today and it was great!
We kick started the morning with a walk to the park when we met a friend who I haven’t seen since my baby shower!
My friend had her 23 month old twin boys with her and the kids all played happily in the sand and on the playground while we girls had a long overdue catch up.
After nipping home to give Ayla a nap, we were on the road again within 1.5hrs this time to one of my friends surprise birthday lunch at a seaside boating club.
It was my first experience of taking Ayla out since she officially became a toddler, and NOW I understand!
Thankfully Ayla was calm and happy to stay closeby during my meal, but the second half of the afternoon was spent following her around the club and catching her moments before she toddled out the door!
Ayla and I went back home and picked Hubby up (he’d been working all day) then went to visit a friend who hasn’t been well.
By the time we got there Ayla eyes were looking tired, but the excitement if visiting another new place was enough to keep her on her feet and toddling around.
Lastly we went to dinner at another friends place where Ayla ate a whole mandarin and played chasey with their 10kg tom-cat!
It was a busy, full on day but Ayla loved it. Despite all the overwhelming people, places and things to do Ayla was friendly and relaxed the whole day.
Saturday, 25 January 2014: Two Hundred and Ninety Nine Days Old.
When I made the call and said Ayla would be “properly” mobile within a fortnight, I didn’t expect it to be so soon!
Ayla is so good at crawling now that I’m already starting to experience the “oh crap, she’s too quiet” moments, and my privacy is well and truly out the window.
Hubby also noticed the impact of Ayla’s mobility when she crawled her way from one end of the house to the other today and set up camp in front of the fishing rod rack in our bedroom.
It must have only been seconds but Ayla somehow managed to dig out a box of hooks and even get one out… O.M.G. What have we got ourselves in to!?
I also found Ayla standing in front of the vanity draws in the bathroom this morning. She had one draw open fully and was happily pulling out and throwing everything she could get her hands on.
And talk about getting ready to go out! It used to only take me about 15 minutes to get out of the house with Ayla, but today it took nearly an hour; turns out it’s hard work catching, cleaning and clothing a baby on the go!
Tuesday, 21 January 2014: Two Hundred and Ninety Five Days Old.
Baby Ayla discovered a newfound sense of freedom this afternoon, and she wasted no time in making the most of it.
Until today I’ve been relying on Ayla’s naps for the time I need to get stuck into renovation work around home, but this afternoon Ayla was far from interested in napping.
Plus, the cool overcast weather left behind by the recent monsoon had created the perfect opportunity for some overdue gardening and presented me an opportunity I didn’t want to give up.
So for the first time I took Ayla and her walker outside, shut the front gate and let my baby girl go nuts in the driveway.
Not surprisingly, Ayla headed straight for the road (hence why I shut the gate) and although it appeared like she was on a mission to escape it could simply have been the downward slope of the driveway proved a slightly easier angle for her little legs to practice on.
But before long Ayla fine tuned the muscles she needed for going uphill and she was off… away and running. In every direction.
Ayla ran over to The Dog. She came flying past me digging up weeds in the garden. She shot back down to the gate when a neighbour walked past, and she tried making friends with next door’s dog through the fence.
The whole time she was running about Ayla had a big joyous grin in her face, her mouth and eyes were open wide and her head seemed like it was on a swivel as it turned around every which way to look for the source of each noise and every breath of wind.
I loved it. Not only because I could see Ayla absorbing so much about the world, and not just because seeing her so happy and excited makes my heart feel like bursting, but because it meant she and I now have a whole new spectrum of things to do together – outdoors.
Wednesday, 16 October 2013: One Hundred and Ninety Nine Days Old.
Hubby and I have embarked on a new hobby that promises less hazards for Baby Ayla and more opportunity active fun… Waterskiing.
People might not think waterskiing is the best activity for kids, but it beats treble hooks, razor sharp fish teeth and ocean swells.
It’s a huge deal for Hubby to get excited about anything that isn’t fishing, and it shows how much Ayla has changed our worlds.
What’s so surprising though is how everything feel so organic and natural, and not once have we thought poorly of a change we’ve had to make.
By no means are we giving up fishing – Hubby and I MET fishing so it will always be part of our lives – but our drive to give Ayla a safe and wholesome childhood has simply shifted the focus a little.
Like Hubby’s new hobby, Ayla has helped put some of mine into perspective too.
Instead of being hell bent on daily fitness training I’m now happy to work out on my terms, and instead of pushing myself in multiple directions on countless projects I’m happy just tackling one at a time.
It’s amazing how right everything feels. I know it’s a cliche to say that but it’s true.